The relationship assessment begins.
20-25 questions depending on your situation, about 3-4 minutes.
Questions change with your answers; you are never asked about what is not part of your relationship.
Answer as honestly as you can — the plan is built from exactly what you say.
Not a psychometric scale or a diagnostic tool.
What is the relationship assessment?
Blisswell’s relationship assessment is a free set of questions built to find which part of your relationship is asking for attention right now. No sign-up, no payment — at the end you get a wellbeing plan of your own.
The questions are not a fixed list. They change direction with your answers, and you are never asked about something that is not part of your relationship. No two people see the same questions or receive the same plan.
How it works
- Answer20-25 questions depending on your situation, about 3-4 minutes. There are no right or wrong answers.
- Topics get orderedYour answers are prioritised across 37 topics: communication, emotional and physical intimacy, trust, conflict, money, family boundaries, a shared future and more.
- Get your planYour twelve-step wellbeing plan appears in order. You can save it to an account and carry on in the app where you left off.
What the wellbeing plan contains
The plan is a twelve-step sequence for your relationship: which topic is worth working on first, what to do at each step, and how to tie it to a daily rhythm.
There is no score, no diagnosis, no one is evaluated. The assessment suggests an order of priority; it makes no judgement about how “good” your relationship is.
Where do my answers go?
The assessment runs in your browser. Unless you choose to save the plan to an account, your answers never leave your device — you can complete the whole thing without signing up.
Who made it
The questions and the plan were written by clinical psychologist Murat Yön, MSc, an EMDR Europe Accredited Therapist. About the author and the method
Frequently asked questions
Is the assessment free?
Yes. Both the assessment and the twelve-step wellbeing plan at the end are free, and you can see them without signing up.
How long does it take?
20-25 questions depending on your situation, about 3-4 minutes.
Is this a test or a diagnostic tool?
No. It is not a psychometric scale, it diagnoses nothing and evaluates no one. It orders topics by which one is worth addressing first.
Does my partner have to take it too?
No, you can take it on your own. Connecting with your partner in the app additionally opens the shared tools.
Are my answers stored?
Unless you choose to save the plan to an account, your answers stay on your device.
Read further
Blisswell is a wellbeing app; it is not therapy, it evaluates no one and diagnoses nothing. It does not replace working with a professional when you need one.
Preparing your plan
Reading responses…
Your twelve-step plan
The rhythm that carries the plan
Save your plan to your account
Download the app, sign in with the same account and your plan is already there — no questions again.
Skip for now, just download the appYour plan is saved
Download the app and sign in with the same email — your plan will be waiting.
Open the plan in the app
Couples Wellness: Blisswell — 37 modules, 66 conversation cards. First 7 days free, cancel in one tap.
The questions and modules are adapted from the most-cited research traditions in couple relationships and sexual health — attachment, emotion-focused work, and circular models of desire. The scoring is not a scale; it orders topics by priority.
Blisswell is a wellbeing app; it is not therapy, it evaluates no one and diagnoses nothing. It does not replace working with a professional when you need one.