Looking for a relationship coach? Try a program that moves step by step
Developed by Murat Yön, clinical psychologist and couples therapist
You want a step-by-step path but are not ready to talk to anyone yet. Blisswell is not a human coach; it is a relationship program that orders its steps by your answers, followed at your own pace.
First a free 4–5 minute assessment, then a 12‑step plan ordered for you.
Start the relationship quizSee your plan without signing up
If one of these sentences is yours
- "I want someone to tell us, step by step, what to do."
- "We're not ready for therapy, but we need to do something."
- "I want to start at my own pace, without talking to anyone."
Sentences we hear often; not user reviews.
What's inside
The quiz does what a coach does in the first meeting: it finds where you are and where to start. Then your plan is built from 37 modules and 287 sessions.
Topics covered in this section
- Communication (10 sessions)
Active listening, speaking without blame, the patterns that wreck an argument, and repair attempts.
- Conflict management (10 sessions)
Seeing the loop of the same fight, taking a pause, repairing afterwards.
- Emotional intimacy (10 sessions)
Deep conversations, emotional distance, the power of vulnerability.
- Daily question and weekly ritual
One question a day: you each write separately, and it opens when you have both finished. A weekly couple ritual of about 15 minutes.
- 60 conversation cards
A card from six decks when starting a conversation is hard.
- Two phones, one subscription
You invite your partner; one subscription opens for you both.
A sample exercise from the program: a short daily listening ritual
One thing people want from coaching is a steady structure: knowing when and how you will talk. The last session of the Communication module builds it with a small ritual that stays simple and sustainable; the session suggests no more than ten minutes, so talking stops being a special effort.
- Pick a time and place together: morning coffee, after dinner or before sleep; the sofa, the balcony, the kitchen table.
- Take turns asking the same question: "What filled you up today, and what drained you?"
- Let the listener only listen, then sum up briefly: "What I'm hearing is…" No fixing, no defending.
- Swap roles; the second person talks, the first listens and sums up.
- Close with one line of appreciation each: "Today I appreciated this about you…"
- Write your ritual down; decide together how often to do it, and change it when you need to.
The ritual is not a test, and missed days are not failures. If the talk turns into an argument, stop and leave it for another time. If there is violence, threats or fear in your relationship, do not push this ritual; your safety comes first, so contact a professional or a helpline.
Abridged from the “Listening Ritual: Closing Session” session (Communication module) in the app.
How it works
- Relationship quiz (4–5 minutes, free)
25–30 questions depending on your situation; your earlier answers decide which questions open. No appointment, no explaining yourself to anyone, no sign-up.
- A 12-step plan
The area you need most comes first; as in the sample plan, it may open with Communication. The plan puts the next session in front of you, so you do not have to work out each day what comes next.
- 12–15 minutes a day
Most sessions take about that long. You continue on your phone or in the browser with the same Couples Wellness account; when you invite your partner, the subscription opens for them too.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this a relationship coach?
Blisswell offers what most people looking for a coach want, where to start and what to do step by step, as a structured program written by a clinical psychologist.
Can I use it alone?
Yes. The quiz and most sessions are for one person; you can do the listening, feelings and needs sessions without your partner. Your partner can join later by invitation, and you move on to the couple sessions together.
Do I have to pay to get started?
No. Taking the relationship quiz and seeing your 12-step plan are free, with no appointment or sign-up. The sessions in your plan that are part of the subscription need a paid Couples Wellness subscription, which also covers your linked partner. Sexual Wellness is a separate app and is not included. Options are on the pricing page.
Phone or computer?
Both. The same Couples Wellness account works in the web app and in the app downloaded from the App Store or Google Play. It is separate from your Apple or Google store account, and from any Sexual Wellness account you may have.
What if I want one-to-one support?
Blisswell does not offer one-to-one conversations. If the same issues have been circling for weeks, if one of you feels worn out all the time, or if you are on the edge of a decision, seeing a couples therapist or psychologist is the better step. If there is fear in your relationship, think of your safety first.
Guide on this topic: We keep having the same fight: why it loops
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